let me put you in the major key.

breathplay
clothed sex
daddy kink
dirty talk
d/s play
face-fucking
feminization
knotting
multiple orgasms
oral sex
overstimulation
rough sex
sexual exhaustion
wet & messy

accidental stimulation
anonymous sex
begging
bloodplay
bondage
crossdressing
double penetration
edging
exhibitionism
frottage
handjobs
masturbation
multiple partners
rimming
sensory deprivation
sexting
sex toys
spanking
voyeurism

adultery
corruption
docking
fisting
gangbang
incest
knife play
oviposition
pegging
sounding
tentacles
wax play

amputation
bestiality
foodplay
foot fetishism
humilitation
infantalism
mpreg
mutilation
nonconsensual
scat
watersports
vore/gore

These are kinks I, personally, have an interest (or not) in playing. Individual characters' kinks may vary from this list, minorly or drastically. I'm fine with fade-to-black or playing it out. I prefer to play smut with an emotional throughline, because otherwise I get bored.